As year-old L. James is far from alone. Some of these guys have difficulties because of situational conditions.
If you struggle to keep going in the bedroom and sexual intercourse generally lasts less than two minutes before you reach orgasm, it sounds like you might be suffering from premature ejaculation PE. PE can cause significant emotional distress and impact relationships, but rest assured you are not alone. An estimated 30 per cent of men suffer from premature ejaculation at some point in their life, but there are effective treatments if you seek professional help.
Lets face it; sex can turn from hot and steamy to uncomfortably awkward in a matter of minutes, or seconds. Either way, it can be extremely uncomfortable for both of you. Shattering his self-confidence was not something on your to-do list for the day.
Lifelong premature ejaculation is what they call it, which means you have been unable to control ejaculation since you first started having sex. There are many theories as to what causes lifelong PE, in my case the answer is pretty clear when looking back at my first sexual experiences. My first exposure to porn was on a site called sublime directory — my older brother showed the site to me, and at the time there was little 30 second clips that I would secretly download and watch on our shared family computer.
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It sounds like you're really struggling with these expectations you have for yourself. The average time it takes someone with a penis to ejaculate once vaginal intercourse starts is just shy of around six minutes. Now, that's just an average figure, and the numbers here can vary greatly depending on a lot of factors, including age and you can read more on that here if you're interested.
Back to Sexual health. Premature ejaculation is where a man ejaculates comes too quickly during sexual intercourse. It is a common ejaculation problem.
Thread: i cum way to fast when i get head! Thread Tools Show Printable Version. Everytime my gf goes down on me I can only last like 1 minute, even when I stop her a bunch of times.
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