Emma Kaywin, a Brooklyn-based sexual health writer and activist, is here to calm your nerves and answer your questions. Q: My boyfriend has been talking to me about trying anal sex. I'm open to the idea, but I want to know more about it first.
While these two things are not mutually exclusive, one does not automatically predict or determine the other. My evidence: Gay total tops exist, and there are many straight men in the world who love getting fingered, pegged, and played with — in the butt. In fact, more and more straight men are.
These days, anal sex doesn't carry the taboo of yesteryear. Still, a lot of ladies are hesitant to try it. Some fear the pain, while others fear the poop.
Is your back door a restricted area? Here's why you should break that rule. Now prepare yourselves for some real talk. You're reading this because you're intrigued at the thought of trying out anal play, so that's a good start, considering there's a bit of a stigma around anything sexual in this particular nether region.
I heard as a teenage student, from friends who had tried at the request of their boyfriends, that anal sex really hurt. On the back of that advice, it had never taken my fancy. Still, the first time took me by surprise.
If you're curious about anal sex, you're far from alone. It may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, it turns out that more than 1 in 3 women ages 19 to 44 have tried anal sex at least once, according to a survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. That said, it's probably not a regular Saturday night thing.
Anal sex gets a bad rap. But I am a warm blooded woman that happens to love anal sex. But even more appalling are the ridiculous articles by women who do love anal sex as a degradation to the female race.
I first wondered about how to prepare for anal sex when I was in college. I was 21, an age when everything is sort of do-or-die, especially regarding love. I had a couple of friends who had tried anal sex, but I judged them ruthlessly for it.
An anal orgasm can truly be the best, most powerful orgasm you have ever had! Ever wonder why anal sex is good? Well, it all depends on if you do it right.