When a friend admitted to me that she loved being choked during sex, my heart stopped. Thankfully, I swallowed my instant reaction and decided to be open. I researched choke play and found that there are several ways to cut off air supply and that only a small portion of folks take things to the extreme point of passing out.
Perhaps I'm crazy, but I've met quite a few women that thoroughly enjoy being choked while making love. Well, apparently when circulation to the brain is slightly cut off, it heightens pleasure. But I'm not talking about erotic asphyxiation in which you choke your partner until she passes out; just put a hand around her neck while you're penetrating her and check her reaction.
Has anyone else noticed? I must have been off sick the day this was decided. En route to Pilates last week I caught up with my friend Rachel.
How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl Choking during sex may be something of an unknown to you, something that can even be a little bit daunting just at the thought. The problem is, not a lot of people know that their partner may be into it, and they may not know how to properly implement it during sex. Interested in giving a woman a super-intense orgasm without choking her?
If blindfolds and role play have veered into vanilla territory for you and your partner, there are still plenty of sex moves that are considered extra freaky. Like choking. Sure, it sounds intense, but experimenting with breath control, or scarfing using a scarf to constrict breathingcan be an exhilarating experience for some people.
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I was 21, in the midst of an intense hook-up with an ex, when I felt his hand pin down my wrist, taking caution before tracing up my neck. Not even just normal, it became craved. It introduced a whole new take on sex. Maybe it was the submissive action I, a typical control freakwas forced to comply with, or maybe it just kept me on the edge of excitement.
Q: My partner has been hinting around about trying more intense stuff, like choking and trying to pass out from an orgasm. A: Well, first off, I want to congratulate you for wanting to try new things safely, especially choking. Cannot emphasize this enough: be safe.
Here we go again, talking about sex like we know something about it. For those of you who, perhaps, watch too much porn and salt your food too much, choking during sex is just another extreme needed to get you there. Our suggestion: Take some time off, lay off the porn and salt and get yourself hydrated, then come back and have normal sex like the rest of us and continue on with a safe, boring existence.